Provides useful tools for helping teenagers successfully make the transition from childhood to adulthood and for improving communication between teenager and caregiver, whether a parent, grandparent, foster parent, or other responsible adult. Parents learn how to get the conversation started, why teens stop talking and how to get them communicating again and the importance of understanding the peer pressure teens face, being sensitive to cultural differences, and not avoiding tough topics. Tips include (1) finding the right balance between control and permissiveness, (2) getting to know the teen’s friends, (3) managing anger by calming down, resolving conflict, and seeking professional help when anger becomes chronic, (4) handling such tough situations as a teen being bullied or bullying others, drug use, failure at school, depression, and anger and violence, (5) handling parental alcohol or substance abuse and domestic violence, and (6) getting help for the teen and the family from a variety of sources and specialists. Parents or caregivers, who are knowledgeable about the warning signs of problems, keep communication open and seek help when necessary. CONTENTS I. Forword II. Introduction III. Getting the Conversation Started A. Why Do Teens Stop Talking? B. How To Get Your Teenager to Start Talking to You Again C. Pressure’s On IV. Increasing Responsibility and Freedom A. The Challenge V. Managing Anger, Theirs and Yours VI. Handling Tough Situations A. What if Your Teen is Being Bullied? B. Signs of Possible Drug or Alcohol Abuse C. Symptoms of Depression VII. When Parents Need Help First A. Children: Exposed to Violence or Abuse VIII. Getting Help for Your Teen A. Connect with Your Child’s School B. Where to Get Help IX. Resources Next
